Letting go is hard, but when you understand the reasons why we hold on, letting go becomes easier.
Struggling to let go is something that we all know about.
We resist allowing things to be the way that they are.
The illusion of being able to control things is the cause of much heartache.
Between the unwritten rules we have about how we believe things should work, and our own brains that have a default mode of dealing, it’s no surprise we hold on to this illusion.
We have to heal the wounds that caused us to want to control things to be in a certain way.
You have to do the inner work.
You have to accept that people won’t always behave in the way that you expect them to.
And if you can let go of those expectations, it’s going to affect the way in which you experience your interactions with others.
Learning to let go is not a single event, it’s not something that you do and then it’s over and done with.
Like most things, you start with baby steps, and you persevere until you get really good at it.
And as life happens, you’ll have to perhaps remind yourself again!
In this video you will learn about why letting go is hard, and I share with you what I believe is the secret to how to really let go and move on, and how to release resistance and let go of attachment. Letting go is easy when you know this!