COACHING FOR WOMEN WHO ARE DONE WITH FEELING NUMB AND WHO WANT TO RECONNECT WITH THEIR INNER FIRE AND ALIVENESS AGAIN.
Remember who you are.
Live and lead from your heart.
TAP INTO EVERYDAY PLEASURE IN YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS.
Liberate yourself from shame and past conditioning and step into the fullness of your feminine power and self-worth.
About my services
Hi there! I’m Tertia,
I can help you step into the life of freedom, joy and pleasure you always wanted.
I will meet you where you’re at and believe that you are the expert in your own life. I will never tell you what to do, but I will show you first through depth, then direction, how to find your own truth.
I stand for your pleasure as much as I stand for your liberation. I will support you in learning how to come back to your body, how to honour your wildness and your wisdom and how to express from your tender heart and fierce fire.
Embodiment changed my life forever.
My early entry into personal development was through mindset work, and I lapped it up. I was convinced that I would find happiness and worth in improving myself ALL THE TIME.
I became a coach so that I could help myself to be better. Around the same time that I began my certification as a Consciousness Coach, I also completed training in EFT Tapping.
But, mindset worked helped nothing when I became a mom. I had a traumatic childbirth and was completely disembodied through the whole experience. Although, since I didn’t have the right words for it, I explained it as being only vaguely aware of what was going on and having big chunks of missing spots in my memory.
This seemed to be the theme for a while in my life afterwards, I was living totally in my mind, disconnected from the undesirable feeling and emotions that were alive in my body. My nervous system was pretty fried and I couldn’t sleep but I just pushed myself harder. I tried to be the perfect super-mom, super-wife, super-entrepreneur. But of course, it didn’t work out so well…
THROUGH EFT TAPPING I UNKNOWINGLY BEGAN TO DEVELOP MY BODY SENSITIVITY.
It was the one tool that I relied on to help me cope. But I was still living from my head most of the time. Demanding a lot from myself and others, and feeling mostly stressed, dry and brittle. Thinking my way through life and only dipping into my body and her depths of really feeling, really accessing my deep truth, when there was something that I wanted to heal.
And then, my body called for my attention. Loudly.
I developed chronic pain and fatigue. Emotionally I felt numb and like a mess at the same time. It’s difficult to explain. Let’s just say that this was my wake-up call. Something had to change.
My body showed me that although I had developed a level of sensitivity to her through my work with EFT Tapping, I needed to go deeper to fully inhabit myself.
In my research on healing fatigue and chronic pain, I came across the concepts of masculine and feminine energy.
I started seeing how often I was leading with and relying on my masculine energy, to get things done.
I saw how being hyper-masculine was feeding my inner critic and tendency to be a perfectionist, and how it dried up my joy and pleasure, making me feel like a shadow of myself.
I was disembodied and so very disconnected from my feminine energy.
I BEGAN A PERSONAL PRACTICE OF SLOWING DOWN AND EXPLORING THE EDGES OF MY FEMININE ENERGY.
And, I had some great teachers along the way.
Feminine reclamation (doesn’t that just sound so damn delicious!!!) is something that I didn’t even know existed, but it found me, and I have done deep work and releases with Sabrina Lynn from Rewilding for Women.
I also began exploring the work of Mama Gena (School of Womanly Arts). I began to learn how to put pleasure first and unpack and discover how my sensual pleasures light me up.
I began sharing what I have learned with my clients, but I couldn’t go as deep as I wanted.
Then I found Jenna Ward’s School of Embodied Arts, and her Feminine Embodiment Coaching Certification, and I knew this was my doorway I was looking for.
But, I got so much more than I expected to.
I finally came home to myself.
Embracing my feminine energy, finding my pleasure and flow and living in alignment with the wisdom of my body.
I am embodying a feminine model of living in both my personal life, my parenting and my business and continue to devote myself to cultivating my own sensitivity, my aliveness, my vulnerability with self, my pleasure, and my magnetism.
Today, I work with women from all over the world AND SUPPORT THEM TO BREAK FREE FROM SELF-DOUBT, PERFECTIONISM, AND PEOPLE-PLEASING AND FLOURISH AS A FULLY EMBODIED, MAGNETIC, AND RADIANT WOMEN.
I support you in
- Connecting with your deep self, who holds wisdom, confidence and aliveness through the art of embodiment
- Dropping from your head into your heart so you can become sensitive to the language of your body
- Safely navigating your big and intense emotions
- Retiring your inner critic and finding your inner freedom
- Releasing the blocks and limiting beliefs that fill you with self-doubt and unveil the confident woman that you already are
- Liberating yourself from shame and past conditioning and stepping into the fullness of your feminine power.
- Tapping into pleasure in your everyday life and relationships.
MY VALUES
These are the values that I embody and that I honor both in my own life and in the work that I do with my clients.
FLUIDITY
I am not the same as I was yesterday. I am surrounded by and immersed in a constant ebb and flow. I honor my natural rhythm, and the season of life I am in. What is true for me today, might not be true for me tomorrow, as I am continuously changing, just like the weather and nature is always changing.
DEVOTION
Honoring that within me which is not static or linear. Embracing my wildness, my wisdom and intuition. Becoming sensitive to my body, her sensations and her expression. The knowledge of my body is infinite. Devoting myself to living and speaking my truth.
VULNERABILITY
Vulnerability with self first. Looking and feeling into my own depths. Being intimate with my own secrets and shadows. Being vulnerable with what I feel shame for and acknowledging what I stand for. Being soft and receptive towards all parts of me, and welcoming everything into my experience.
LEADERSHIP
Taking a stand for embodiment. Taking a stand for vulnerability. Being the voice and impulse for a deeper connection to self for myself and my sisters. Leading from the heart and not the mind. Contributing to the rise of the Feminine as She awakens within all of us.
Training and Qualifications
Feminine Embodiment Coach (SOEA)
Professional Consciousness Coach (ICF/ACTP)
EFT Tapping Practitioner (Level 2)
Usui Reiki Level II
BA Health Science and Social Services